Are you feeling stuck in your relationship, unsure how to reconnect, or anxious about intimacy?
Many men I work with love their partners deeply but feel frustrated, misunderstood, or under pressure to “get it right.”
I’m Lou Crosby
A qualified BSc (Hons) Counsellor & Psychotherapist based in Peterborough, Cambridgeshire.
I offer confidential counselling and talking therapies for men and adults who want to feel calmer, communicate better, and rebuild closeness in their relationships.
Together, we’ll explore what’s getting in the way of connection so you can feel more at ease in your relationship, your body, and your mind.
Ready to talk?
Book a free 15-minute consultation or send me a message to see if therapy feels right for you.
Common Issues I Support Men With
Men I work with often say things like…
“My partner is so unhappy and I’m scared she’ll leave, but I don’t know how to fix this.”
“I’ve been unfaithful / she’s been unfaithful and I don’t know how we come back from it.”
“I keep distracting myself with porn or my phone instead of actually being present.”
“She says I don’t listen, that I don’t ‘get it’… and I honestly don’t know what she wants from me.”
“On paper my life is good – but at home it feels tense, distant and lonely.”
If that sounds familiar, you’re in the right place.
I offer one-to-one therapy for men in Peterborough who want to work on their relationships – whether you’re dealing with affairs and betrayal, too much porn and online distraction, or a partner who is deeply unhappy and thinking about leaving.
My clients are usually good, decent men who are motivated to change… even if, at first, they’re hoping everyone else will change instead. Together, we slow things down so you can really see what’s going on, understand your partner more clearly, and recognise the places where you have the power to do something different.
I don’t sit in judgement. I help you make sense of what’s happening, take responsibility without drowning in shame, and learn practical ways to show up differently in your relationship.
If you’re looking for relationship counselling for men in Peterborough – or men’s psychotherapy online anywhere in the UK – this is the work I do every day.
You don’t have to do this on your own.
About Lou
I’m Lou Crosby (BSc Hons, MBACP), a qualified Counsellor and Psychotherapist working with adults who want to build confidence, improve their relationships, and feel more connected in their emotional and sexual lives.
I hold a BSc (Hons) in Counselling & Psychotherapy and have undertaken additional professional training in:
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Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy
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Attachment and Trauma-Informed Practice
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Working with Neurodivergence in Adults
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Anxiety and Stress Management
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Addictive and Compulsive Behaviours, including Porn Use
My approach is gentle, collaborative, and led by you. I help you explore the roots of self-doubt, anxiety, or confusion so you can gain a fresh perspective, strengthen your self-worth, and move towards meaningful change.
Start feeling more in touch with your authentic self.
How I Can Help You
I specialise in counselling for men and relationship therapy in Peterborough, supporting those who feel unappreciated or disconnected despite their efforts to keep everyone happy.
You may be longing for more intimacy or affection but getting caught in cycles of blame, criticism, or withdrawal.
Think of this as relationship counselling just for you,a space to understand patterns, rebuild confidence, and learn to communicate with openness and honesty.
Together, we’ll build the skills you need to feel valued, supported, and close again.
1 hr 30 min
95 British pounds
1 hr
75 British pounds
Ready to Get Started?
I offer individual and couples counselling from my private therapy space in Peterborough city centre, with free parking and the option to meet online anywhere in the UK.
If you’ve been waiting a long time for mental health support or are unsure where to start, you can make an appointment directly — no referral needed.
Your first session is an opportunity to see if we’re a good fit and to discuss what you’d like to get from therapy.